Monday, August 31, 2015

Traveling to Disney with a Special Needs Child

For the vast majority of guests at Walt Disney World, they don’t have to worry about the obstacles that come when traveling with somebody who have physical, mental, and/or developmental limitations.  Up until we had our son Carter that was us.  Before we had Carter, my husband and I would go to the parks and stay until closing and never really planned ahead except for maybe a few meals.  Now when we go, even if it’s just for a quick day trip, we plan everything out meticulously.  I think people traveling with kids, regardless of any special needs, should plan ahead for Fast Passes (a system that lets you pre-determine what time you want to ride a certain ride, and your line is less than a ten minute way, rather than an hour-plus), meals, and attractions they want to see/do. Every time I go to the park, I am shocked at how many people I overhear say they didn’t know about Fast Passes or they didn’t make any dining reservations (most of the busy restaurants don’t even accommodate walk-in diners).  Going to a theme park is a ton of fun, but it can also be incredibly stressful.  No matter which park you decide to go to, parking will take a little while and require you to walk 50 miles to the front gate (perhaps a slight exaggeration).  If the temperature in Orlando is 80 degrees, those parking lots will be about 105.  Once you arrive at the front gate, you have to wait for bag inspection and to scan/show your ticket to actually get into the park.  All of these things take a while and require waiting in lines.  Finally you are in the park and can take your child on a ride they’ve been so looking forward to, only to discover there is a 90-minute wait.  After a minor miracle, you’re able to entertain your little one for this length, it is your turn on a 3-minute ride and your child is suddenly scared of it and cries the whole time.  Let’s just say, even on a good day, things can get really stressful!
Happy Carter at WDW!


All of these stressors are compounded and multiplied when you have a small child who has special needs.  Our Carter doesn’t have an official diagnosis (he won’t until he’s 6), but as of right now he has general/global development delays and sensory processing disorder.  As of right now, he is still non-verbal (well that’s not fair, he does plenty of vocalizing, just none of it is “real” words) and has the developmental age of about a 18-month old.  When something is bothering him or he wants something, he has no verbal way to communicate this.  We have to take a guess when he’s hot, hungry, thirsty, tired, etc. much like you would with a baby before they started talking.  Carter also has an incredibly hard time waiting, sitting still, and doing what he is told (much like many toddlers). Pair that with sensory issues and not being able to communicate, is a disaster waiting to happen at a theme park.  While there is no way around it entirely, there is one tool at Disney that has made our lives so much easier- the DAS card.  The Disability Access Card (DAS) can be given to anyone with a family member with any type of disability.  It allows a family to skip the waiting in line for attractions.  For example, let’s say we want to ride the Little Mermaid ride with Carter but there’s a 30 minute wait.  We go up to the front of the line and tell one of the cast members we are using our DAS card.  They will scan our magic bands, and tell us to come back after a certain time (30 minutes later).  Once that time has come, we can go back on that ride and not have to wait in line.  It doesn’t mean you get to go on any ride and never wait in a line, you can only use it for one ride at a time, and you still have to wait the 30 minutes, but you don’t have to stand in the line for 30 minutes (usually we’ll take that time to use the restroom, get a snack, etc.). 

Our sweet boy! Top- at Magic Kingdom, Bottom- at Animal Kingdom


It has been a life saver for us, and makes Carter’s experience at Disney much like it would be for any other 3-year old.  That is probably the number 1 reason why we go back to Disney time and time again.  Having a place where your special needs child can be like anyone else and have the time of their life, is priceless!   
At Disney, Carter gets to be like anyone else- happy and making memories!

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